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If you’ve received an invitation to a Pakistani wedding, get ready for an extraordinary experience full of colour, joy, and heartfelt tradition. These events are much more than a wedding—they are multi-day celebrations steeped in culture, faith, and family unity. For those attending for the first time, it can be helpful to know what to expect so you can fully appreciate the festivities and engage respectfully.
Whether the celebration is held in a family home, a community centre or a premium Pakistani wedding venue like The Epping Club, the energy, colour and sense of togetherness will leave a lasting impression.
A Multi-Day Celebration
Pakistani weddings are known for their sequence of events, each with its own style, rituals and symbolism. While every wedding is different depending on the family’s preferences and cultural background, here’s a guide to the key events you may encounter:
• Dholki: A pre-wedding gathering filled with traditional music, drumming and singing. Held in the days or weeks before the wedding, this is a time for laughter, bonding and shared anticipation.
• Mayoun/Ubtan: A fun and meaningful ritual where turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom. This tradition symbolises purification and beauty before the wedding day.
• Mehndi: Arguably the most vibrant celebration, the Mehndi night features henna application, music, dance performances and bright, festive décor. Guests often wear colourful outfits and join in the dancing.
• Nikah: The formal Islamic marriage ceremony where vows are exchanged and the couple signs the marriage contract. This is a spiritual and respectful occasion often attended by close family and friends.
• Baraat: A grand procession that marks the groom’s arrival at the wedding venue. Often accompanied by drummers (dhol), music and dancing, it’s a high-energy moment full of fanfare.
• Walima: The final celebration hosted by the groom’s family. This reception brings everyone together for a beautiful meal and continued celebration of the couple’s union.
What to Wear
Dress codes vary depending on the event, but modesty and elegance are key. Guests are encouraged to embrace traditional South Asian fashion, especially for the main events.
• Women: Sarees, lehengas or salwar kameez in bright colours and embellished fabrics are ideal. Choose lightweight jewellery for pre-wedding events and save your finest pieces for the Nikah or Walima.
• Men: Sherwanis and kurta-pyjamas are a popular choice. Western formal wear such as suits is also acceptable, especially for the Walima.
• When attending events at a premium Pakistani wedding venue like The Epping Club, it’s a great opportunity to dress in your best—just remember to stay respectful of religious customs, especially during the Nikah.
Food to Delight the Senses
One of the highlights of any Pakistani wedding is the food. Expect a wide selection of Halal dishes, often served buffet-style at venues, or as a full-service banquet at more formal receptions.
• Main Dishes: Biryani, butter chicken, lamb korma, seekh kebabs, and naan bread are popular staples.
• Desserts: Treats like gulab jamun, kheer (rice pudding) and ras malai are guest favourites.
• Drinks: Traditional non-alcoholic offerings such as mango lassi, chai, and Rooh Afza-based drinks are typically served.
Alcohol is generally not part of Pakistani wedding celebrations.
Music, Dance and Entertainment
Music and dance are the heartbeat of a Pakistani wedding. From traditional dhol drumming to choreographed family dances, guests are often treated to a show—and may even be invited to join in!
• Expect lots of dancing, particularly at the Mehndi and Baraat events.
• Popular songs often include both classic Pakistani tunes and Bollywood hits.
• At larger Pakistani wedding venues, professional lighting, sound systems and spacious dancefloors add even more excitement to the celebrations.
Etiquette and Cultural Considerations
• Hospitality: Pakistani families are famously welcoming. You’ll likely be offered food, drinks and a warm seat at every event.
• Modesty: Dress respectfully, especially at religious ceremonies. Consider covering shoulders or wearing longer hemlines.
• Gifts: While there is no strict rule, cash gifts or thoughtful offerings are typically appreciated.
• Timings: Events may run on flexible timelines, so patience is part of the experience.
Celebrate in Style at Sydney’s Leading Pakistani Wedding Venue
Attending a Pakistani wedding is a celebration of culture, family and tradition. From henna nights to elaborate receptions, every moment is layered with meaning and joy.
At The Epping Club, we proudly host stunning cultural weddings and are one of Sydney’s most sought-after Pakistani wedding venues. With flexible event spaces, Halal catering options, and a team experienced in South Asian wedding traditions, we help create unforgettable memories for couples and their guests alike.